I asked the wife, “Which would bother you more—if I was having a heterosexual affair, or a homosexual affair?”
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Wow you like playing it close to edge dont you. ;)
In my case it would like asking if I would be dead, or I would be deceased.
She understood that what I was getting at was how big a jerk McGreevey was. And he was in a position of public trust, besides.