From what I've seen, the "grieving widow" didn't appear to be genuinely distraught, so she is the perfect political tool. Just my opinion.
She’s not lashing out at Trump but also the military for not letting her view the remains. Fine, she’s grieving right now but there is a reason they advised against looking at a finger. If she’s so worried about an empty coffin, no one’s going to stop her from digging it up. What, he ran off with another woman and the military is going to all this trouble to cover for him? Going on a publicity tour isn’t honoring him and is traumatizing the children. Such hate and selfishness.