Do you go to parties and reach out and honk young women’s breasts as if they were horns? Has any of the young women you pulled this boorish, nasty behavior on had a bf or a husband? Did he beat the snot out of you?
I’m not defending the acts, but you also must admit that if a young lady told her husband or boyfriend about a breast-squeezing assault, the response would sometimes be “Well gee honey, you know that’s just part of the game, you just have to put up with it if you want to get those big parts and all the money so all our big dreams can come true”. Probably followed by “And it’s not like you were raped or anything”...
Again - not justifying bad behavior but that’s the attitude that many had and probably still have. Hopefully these revelations will change the attitudes and encourage more women to understand that they don’t have to “put up with it” in order to get ahead.
Sexual abuse is always more about power than about sex. These men didn’t act this way because they had no other form of sexual satisfaction, they did it because they COULD.
Only when I’m wearing my Harpo Marx outfit.
I never ask.
That wasn’t snot.
;^)