“For HER it is.
When a guy looks at the whole set-up critically, they wonder “why the hell am I signing up for this to live with a roommate?”.”
Sad and clueless.
“Sad and clueless.”
Ignorant and tone-deaf.
Go do a little search for what happened to thousands of doey-eyed saps that got sent into the meat grinder by his special lady.
That is why guys are walking away.