You’re old school in the good sense of being old school, then. Not a common outlook anymore, unfortunately. I’d assume your husband feels the same of you as well. It’s a two-way street.
I’m totally old school after learning the hard way that he needed me to be that.
And I found great joy there. It’s nothing like what feminism prepared me for and I spent the first ten years thinking I was his partner in the sense of careers and things like that.
Once I got a clue, we were soooo much happier. I’m going to the mat for him in every situation there is.