Marrying a woman in her 30s is a pointless thing to do. Her ability to have kids is quite limited, she probably slept with 30-50 guys by 35 and will be unable to bond.
JohnyBoy
Since May 11, 2017
I hear Melania Trump is over thirty. You just may be insane.
I had my first at 38, miracle child. Docs can tell you what you need to do after 30 to be healthy.
I think some of them do reform, after a time, perhaps becoming “born-again virgins” seeking quality men, but I don’t have the patience to weed them out from all other ones.
Stupid generalization. I was 37, my husband 38, when we married, I hadn't slept with "30-50 guys"; didn't sleep with my husband until our wedding night (we had what you might call a moral code); and we are bonded like duct tape and gorilla glue. We're in love. Even 29 years later.
The part about fertility decline is more or less correct. We conceived about 6 weeks after we got married, which was a super OMG blessing, but that was followed up with a couple of early miscarriages and then nothing. It was difficult to even adopt a brother for our only-begotten Ben at that age, but we did. Again by Divine Providence, I am convinced.
So we've been lucky, or favored if you see it that way; but many find both fertility and adoption to be major challenges in their late 30's and beyond. OTOH, my mother conceived me when she was 42. Thank you Mother, thank you Father.