Thank you, blueplum.
Make a list, ladies. What’s important to you?
Learn about his family and past. Meet his friends and family.
Do you have the same values? Do you laugh together?
Does he have a close relationship with his mother? His family?
Life is short, but it can seem far too long if you’re with the wrong person.
Most men don’t even bother looking up from their phones long enough for even a flirtatious hello. Except the married ones. They’re always ready to come on to you, and usually they don’t even bother taking off the wedding ring.
Bingo!
Look at the relationship between his mother and father critically.