[metmom]

Men can also CHOOSE to NOT make those kinds of advances.

Then women would not be forced into a position of keeping them in line.

Again, the responsibility is being laid at the women’s feet.

God expects moral character out of both men and women.

Men were never exempt from moral failure. God administered the SAME punishment to both for it. HE doesn’t make distinctions or make excuses about boys will be boys, and men’s sex drive is stronger.... wink, wink.....

How can men expect to be taken seriously about their role of protector when they are the first to prey on vulnerable women?

[JamesP81]

There is some truth to what you say, but it leaves some things out.

I always chose not to make unwanted advances. I chose to be a gentlemen. I always chose to be respectful.

By secular reasoning, these were bad choices. I was socially punished for doing the right thing. If I had been born a complete asshole, I'd have had a much easier, much happier life.

That was never really me, however, and I coudn't just make the transition to that. Some men can. Do I approve? No. Do I blame them? Not really. It's not hard to see why things are done the way they are.