Some women recommend doing a fake reach for a credit card at the end of a date. It is a pretense of being independent and not seeking resources from a man. In fact, however, they expect the man to insist on paying, meaning that the woman’s fake move gets her the pretense of independence, while she still gets the man’s resources.
That applies to lots of situations between women and men.
I would love it if their date saw their “fake reach” and let them get the bill.
On not so great dates the guy excuses himself to the restroom and afterwards walks out. Don’t worry, he learned it from women.