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9 Reasons It’s So Hard to Find a Good Man
Bolde.com ^ | Amanda Chatel

Posted on 09/15/2017 8:15:38 PM PDT by BJ1

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To: Jim from C-Town
Feminism has turned women into whores and told them that they should like it that way. Almost all her ‘reasons’ revolved around this simple fact. Men can have sex with woman and not commit to even a date. Women allow them to do this. If women didn’t allow it, men would not do it.

This is it exactly. I remember reading a study years ago about the effects of the sexual revolution on female marriage rates and opportunities. It was not happy news.
221 posted on 09/16/2017 8:20:49 AM PDT by Gingersnap
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To: caww
Oh gee....he fell for the Russian Gal ‘trap’.....Ukrainians do that as well. Long distance $$$$$$ scams...how does he know if it’s actually a gal?

If you want to go the Slavic route, I would definitely prefer Polish or Czech women.
222 posted on 09/16/2017 8:21:35 AM PDT by dfwgator
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To: fieldmarshaldj

Certain people only come along once in awhile...
Well sounds though you learned from it at least...keep your head up...that person could come along any time...


223 posted on 09/16/2017 8:23:27 AM PDT by wyowolf (Be ware when the preachers take over the Republican party...)
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To: Chickensoup
>>They are not all religious, but many are, and they all are committed to a future and a pretty conservative way of life. Many years ago there was a film called Blast From the Past. In it was a young man who had been brought up isolated with fifties values. One of the more poignant parts of the film was when a 90’s homosexual character looked at the young mans stalwart values with wistfulness.

So much cultural change has come from those on the margins of society. The upper class Marxists who led the riots in the streets in the 60s and 70s. The drop out beats who lambasted the culture. William Burroughs was a trust fund kid (Burroughs adding machine). Couldn't have made a living as a junkie homosexual wife-killer otherwise.

Even the beats and upper echelon hippies were aware enough that EVERYONE couldn't "drop out" of society. Someone needed to keep the subway (or buses) running, someone needed to clean the sewers, all of those tasks that "normal" people did. It's easy to sit on the sidelines of life (with a thick wallet) and say "this sucks" (as Hollywood does today, moaning that they only make $20,000,000 a picture instead of $50,000,000). But what do they propose replacing it with? A "liveable wage" handout for no work? Who contributes when there is no shame in not working and no reward in doing the job?

224 posted on 09/16/2017 8:23:28 AM PDT by a fool in paradise (Did Barack Obama denounce Communism and dictatorships when he visited Cuba as a puppet of the State?)
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To: Hardastarboard

No they will not. People always want what they can not have or can not have easily. It is human nature.


225 posted on 09/16/2017 8:28:22 AM PDT by Jim from C-Town (The government is rarely benevolent, often malevolent and never benign!)
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To: cgbg

>>(P.S. My one and only wife of twenty years is great—I really dodged the bullet.)

Congrats.

Still not married and although it’s in other ways, I’ve learned that not getting something we want (an acceptance letter from a specific college, a certain job, a house in a specific neighborhood, etc.) sometimes is dodging a bullet.

More common is when I’m running late and get out on the road/highway and come across a scene of a bad accident (maybe 10-15 minutes ahead of my time reaching the area). Had I been “on time” that could’ve been me. I’m grateful when it isn’t. We won’t even always be aware of such moments/events.


226 posted on 09/16/2017 8:29:28 AM PDT by a fool in paradise (Did Barack Obama denounce Communism and dictatorships when he visited Cuba as a puppet of the State?)
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To: akalinin

A female friend of mine has an engineering degree, married a man with an associates degree, worked in the skilled trades. She was mocked for marrying down. They had two boys. After he ended up running construction sites and she called him a project manager, they stopped criticizing his background because he had the title “manager” and 100K income.


227 posted on 09/16/2017 8:34:54 AM PDT by tbw2
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To: BJ1

She’s too stupid to know she’s ignorant...yes, that’s what I meant...she left out the number #0.

Her type, i.e., feminists, have convinced men need to be docile, but when they act docile, they are told (we) need to be manly. So we act many and are wrong and naildraggers or couched that burp and fart, and when we act more docile or “feminized”, we aren’t manly enough...bottom line is we aren’t needed or good enough...so we/they give up. I interlace they and we as I am permanently taken.

The #11 is dads have disappeared and women these days get approval in all the wrong ways, not from their dad, and what is left is a women most men don’t want.


228 posted on 09/16/2017 8:39:51 AM PDT by CincyRichieRich (We must never shut up. Covfefe: A great dish served piping hot!)
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To: BookmanTheJanitor

I read that entire article. Boy is it annoying when someone refers to their Husband or Wife a their ‘partner’. I always think about Starsky 7 Hutch or Riggs & Murtaugh. Or a law firm.

I hate these Leftist twits!


229 posted on 09/16/2017 8:50:43 AM PDT by Jim from C-Town (The government is rarely benevolent, often malevolent and never benign!)
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To: BookmanTheJanitor

BTW I also hate to hear about a 50 year old persons’ ‘boyfriend’ or girlfriend’. I just hate that. I am weird that way.


230 posted on 09/16/2017 8:52:02 AM PDT by Jim from C-Town (The government is rarely benevolent, often malevolent and never benign!)
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To: wyowolf

Sometimes just once, period. What I’ve learned could fill a set of old encyclopedias. Cold comfort, however.


231 posted on 09/16/2017 9:06:17 AM PDT by fieldmarshaldj (Je Suis Pepe)
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To: fieldmarshaldj

Unless you just have abnormal standards or a jerk you’re probably compatible with lots of people...


232 posted on 09/16/2017 9:13:50 AM PDT by wyowolf (Be ware when the preachers take over the Republican party...)
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To: sparklite2

“A friend of mine wanted to marry a Russian girl. Last I saw of him, he was supporting her family, and she was delaying coming over.”

Sounds like a scam ...


233 posted on 09/16/2017 9:20:15 AM PDT by catnipman ( Cat Nipman: Vote Republican in 2012 and only be called racist one more time!)
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To: wyowolf

Abnormal standards ? Expecting them to be attractive and not possessing many of the ugly traits of so many of today’s females as discussed in the thread. Hell, even asking for no tats seems like it’s too much to demand. Yuck.

Of course, I’m a bit... unusual, and that can be a challenge. I have health issues, too, which can be very off-putting for a young woman. Well, that’s the short answer.


234 posted on 09/16/2017 9:24:26 AM PDT by fieldmarshaldj (Je Suis Pepe)
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To: central_va
My ex said this to me once.


235 posted on 09/16/2017 9:29:08 AM PDT by BlueLancer (ANTIFA - The new and improved SturmAbteilung)
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To: BlueLancer

LOL!


236 posted on 09/16/2017 9:30:13 AM PDT by dfwgator
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To: BJ1

“Wanted: Good woman with boat and motor. Must be able to cook, clean and generally attend to the needs of a man. Send picture of boat and motor to...”


237 posted on 09/16/2017 10:08:31 AM PDT by outofsalt ( If history teaches us anything it's that history rarely teaches us anything)
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To: dfwgator

I think I love the AT&T girl...


238 posted on 09/16/2017 10:20:20 AM PDT by outofsalt ( If history teaches us anything it's that history rarely teaches us anything)
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To: alexander_busek

Slate as in flat and rectangular, as in a writing tablet.


239 posted on 09/16/2017 11:15:08 AM PDT by sparklite2 (I'm less interested in the rights I have than the liberties I can take.)
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To: SamAdams76

I laughed at her cringing at the notion of criticizing hooking up. Just a few post upthread from yours, though, someone says how important sexual compatibility is. If you can determine sexual compatibility without already being married to that person, then you’ve been ‘hooking up.’ NTTAWWT lol


240 posted on 09/16/2017 11:27:58 AM PDT by sparklite2 (I'm less interested in the rights I have than the liberties I can take.)
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