[cherry]

if you're such a cheap bastard then you should say right up front....

however, if you decide to start dating anyway, at least have the balls to acknowledge that you don't want to pay for her and stop dating her....

what a wimpy society...

bad enough we're among communists now we get the wimps afraid to pay for dates...

[atc23]

if you're such a cheap bastard then you should say right up front....

So what are you bringing to the table? No pun intended. She better be off the charts charming, under 30 and a 10+ or the date is over BEFORE the waiter returns to take the drink order - and I hope she has cab fare. I'm not wasting a minute otherwise. Life is short.