WE are the real problem here, because WE accept this nonsense and try to ignore it and go on about our lives and trying to be productive... and thus we get more and more of it, with each passing year. There should be far more public outrage at the incessant damned-if-you-do-damned-if-you-don't nonsense from the Progressives.
THIS. This is exactly the problem with angry black men:
White person looks at him? Oh, she's thinking I shouldn't be here!
White person doesn't look at him? Oh, she's ignoring me! Right, just ignore me and hope I go away!
White person smiles and speaks: Oh, right, trying to show me how open-minded you are. Am I your good deed for the day?
White person doesn't speak: Oh, no, don't speak to the Black Man, he's not even a person in your world!
White person gives way: Afraid I'm going to touch you, princess? Think the Black is going to rub off?
White person doesn't give way: Oh, right, I'm the one who has to step aside because I'm Black!
No matter what you do, they have the most racist interpretation already cooking in their heads. It's pointless to even try to figure out what they want, because they don't even know what they want until they see what you do. Then they decide that whatever they wanted, it wasn't THAT.