the solution to this dilemma has always been right in front of our eyes. Women from the age of two have been trained (by other women, of course) to separate some poor guy from their money as quickly as possible. the solution is simple.....
She money. As in money she don’t see.
Guys have simply to stop telling these professional home wreckers what they have and where they have it.
Better yet, simply don’t marry them. let them support themselves
How ‘bout that?
I think that men and women should consider marriage in their thirties.
By then, the worthless have shown themselves for who they are and in your thirties you’re a lot more intelligent about human nature and the realities of how people are.
A woman who wants to be taken care of will either earn her own way by habit or slip into poverty and a smart man will not marry her and risk losing everything.
As for women, women will be safer since they will have their own money to get out of a bad situation and they’ll be a lot more savvy about the men that they actually choose to mate with.