Being a full parent to a child you co-create is not extortion.
See, the whole idea of children is that they are the trash outcome of an adult situation gone awry. No matter the circumstances, it is just assumed the child will take the brunt ... either by abortion, or not having a father, or whatever. The end result, the bad circumstances are just de facto assumed to all fall on the child.
Even if a many says he was ‘tricked’ (and haven’t we heard that story a million times) the BIOLOGICAL reality is that when you have sex there is always a possibility of creating a child. It even happens sometimes after vasectomy. So there is NO 100% risk free sex. Maybe when the woman is past 60 or so, then it might be possible to have completely risk free sex.
So, given the BIOLOGICAL reality, if you want to be 100% sure you will not create a child you would not have sex. Period. Married, not married, doesn’t matter. Sex is BIOLOGICALLY designed to produce children.
People are anti-science and anti-reality if they do not believe this.
The second best course of action is for both partners to use some form of contraception at the same time.
I don’t understand people who deny the biological reality of sex and then claim THEY are the victim when a pregnancy occurs? It is illogical in the extreme.
If you have sex, there is always a possibility of conception occurring. If you don’t want that to happen the burden is on YOU (one or both adults) to go to extreme measures to prevent it.