As woman, I don’t understand the mentality of other women who force men into a situation he obviously doesn’t want to be in. My brother-in-law’s baby mama went off birth control pills without telling him, although he was adamant that he never wanted children. The kid is three years old, and he still won’t marry her (even though he’s never had a job and she’s his meal ticket). I get the impression he’s not a very doting father.
If he doesn’t want a child he should take personal responsibility for making that not happen. Otherwise, he is pushing off his responsibility onto someone else and hoping for the best.
The men in the article are least taking personal responsibility for not creating an unwanted child who will end up with no father.