We are looking at Rumford. It has everything we want.
Check out Farmington- 25 miles east of Rumford (Redrum). College town, shire town. Nice Main St. Much better vibe. Just 25 miles to Sugarloaf Mtn ski area (big time skiing) and better roads/access. Many events there- County fair, theater etc. If You want western maine in the foothills of the Longfellow mountains, have a look.