[ A woman with “manhands” would be a nogo for me...and Jerry ]
I knew a gal with “man hands” once and we knew she was actually female because she had several kids, as in birthed them.
It was disturbing whenever she wore big red press on fingernails, like some sorta clawed she-beast...
She was the nicest women you could ever meet, but those fingernails did no favors to how her hands looked.
Funny thing was her husband was almost 7ft tall and had massive hands, so i guess relative to him her hands were small and dainty :)
As far as that goes, there have been times I’ve found a mannish looking woman to be verrreee attractive.
I was once passing a store in our local mall, and a young woman was dressing a mannequin. I looked down and saw she was wearing flip flops and she had the biggest, ugliest feet I had ever seen on a woman. There was even hair on those things. Perhaps she was part Hobbit. I guess it is always a little jarring when you see a woman with oversized (man) hands or feet.