You have to do your best to keep them from getting Americanized.
I want to be careful how to say this. But I feel that most men really don’t want these “feminist” type women.
Men don’t want to have a woman who is so into her high powered professional career, that family life plays 2nd fiddle in their lives.
Men don’t want a woman who is in competition with them in the career struggle.
Men do greatly appreciate a woman who can take care of everything on the home front, while he brings home the bacon.
Men do want a woman who will comfort them. Men want a woman who wants to be a good mother, and works as hard at being a mother as she does at a paying job.
And men on this site, who are predominantly on the conservative side socially and politically, do not want a liberal wife.
I’m just generalizing here. Of course we can find examples of men who are happy with their wives as part of a power couple. I just don’t think that this is how most men are. I know lots of men, and have discussed a lot of these issues over the years with them. Some of the men are more liberal politically, so some of what I mention here applies to even liberal men.