And don’t clean their damn dishes. Dont be a beta male either. Help your brother to stop being one too. Whether she leaves or stays is immaterial. ,if she stays she wanted him to be in control over her and the house, if she leaves she never saw him as a long term candidate and he is better off because he is free to find someone who will.
they’ve been married 18 years, 2 kids both in 10th grade, he paid cash using his money for their house, guess who is the only name on the title to the house ?
extreme Stockholm syndrome