First you were nice but uninteresting. Then you became nice and interesting, and it worked.
They seem to want some excitement. Not rational on their part, but it’s true. Being exciting while working one’s a$$ off to support the family isn’t easy. They want both the excitement plus the money,
Many women are attracted to the bad boy, even if he is one literally, as in “in prison.”. There is nothing we can or should do for those women.