Thanks for stating the case!
I’m a catch, not a conquest. But very few men my age (20’s) are looking for that. :( And they think chastity is something only religious fanatics endorse.
My son is married and my daughters are not. Yet.
However, I think it’s a far richer playing field for guys.
I know an awful lot of young single Christian girls who are quite good catches and they far outnumber the number of guys who are good catches, ones with integrity.