30+ years of wedded bliss here. And 25 years as a divorce attorney.
Life’s too short to be unhappy. Marriage isn’t for everyone. The youngsters, guys esp, have an acronym: GYOW/Go your own way.
It’s not surprising that they hesitate to take up with young women pushing 30 who (to use their words) “rode the cock carousel” for years and now want to settle down ... at least for a while.
>>young women pushing 30 who
Uhuh.
I don’t envy young people in a dating environment where choosing a mate who lies about their history - can kill you.
But just because the Oil light on the cultural dash board is illuminated - doesn’t mean the driver should push the gas peddle to the floor and run the car into a wall.
Lot’s of folks gon’ be getting a Darwin Award they wouldn’t be gettin’ if they’d RTFM and followed the instructions that came with the species.