Women have evolved to be good at hiding who they are. The only real red flag I had was that she failed bootcamp.
Having been in the military myself, I know that it is not for everyone.
Until the laws and the courts change, the only mate selection that makes sense is NO selection. Women are simply not worth the risk anymore.
As far as your Bible goes, I think even Paul said not getting married was preferable.
>>The only real red flag I had was that she failed bootcamp.
Uhuh.
Didn’t RTFM, did ya.