>>>What kind of advice should she give? Marry early before the men find out they can get it for free later on? Make a lot of money so someone will marry you? Lie and say your family is leaving you millions?
This is standard Free Republic. Blame the woman - not the men who are selfish and irresponsible. LOL<<<
I think it’s reasonable, based on the article, that she chose to date men based on their looks/sexual attraction. Had this woman the chance to do it over again, I would imagine she would look for a different type of man. That is the advice I would have liked to see.
If I was a 35 year old single woman I probably would be pissed off. Mad as hell that the dating world had turned into this meat market of meaningless sex. And I would probably be pissed off that I was likely to remain single.
Yes, men must comply with the female “schedule”.
I think it’s reasonable, based on the article, that she chose to date men based on their looks/sexual attraction. Had this woman the chance to do it over again, I would imagine she would look for a different type of man. That is the advice I would have liked to see.
The Orthodox Jews do it right. When the kid is of marriageable age, their parents really take a good look at the kid and know everything promising (and quirks and faults) and look for suitable dating matches. No arranged marriages, just arranged dates in public with a boy or girl that would be a good match in many ways. Too much emphasis is on socioeconomic and “more religious than thou” like every other culture, but most of it is putting BRAIN into making a good match rather than just your genitals. The kids don’t have to like each other, the parents, matchmaker is told, and no hard feelings, and they go on other dates. It’s much smarter.