There's plenty of "good men" out there. It doesn't matter if the women find them "unexciting". Women want the men who make their vaginas tingle.
Unfortunately for many of these women, they want men who have better options than dating THEM, while rejecting the men who would actually be willing to marry them.
Then there are the women who spend their youth "riding the cock carousel", sleeping with charming, exciting men who are fine with dating them only as long as there is "no strings" sex offered. Then they get bitter when their youth is all spent, the exciting men who wanted them in their 20's have moved on to younger women, and the only men now available to them are the men they rejected in their youth.
I see someone else here is a CH fanboy.