Risks of divorce and her cheating is too high unless you can find a near virgin.
There’s also an utter lack of non slutty women to marry. Once a woman been with 4+ guys her ability to pair bond is pretty much destroyed and the risk of divorce due to cheating goes through the roof. This is why functional socities put a great deal work into keeping women chaste before marriage.
The problem is people wait so long to marry that they find themselves in the 30s wondering why “all of the good ones are taken”.
Which is why the advice I would give now is, find someone good enough as soon as possible, and make it work. Don’t worry about whether or not you can do better. There is no such thing as “finding your soulmate”.
It’s important that the guys are chaste as well.
“Risks of divorce and her cheating is too high unless you can find a near virgin.”
Marry a young woman, get her pregnant, and she’s going to commit to the marriage. It’s worked that way for eons and only when we started using birth control did things change.
The way we have our marriage relationships these days is not natural and we’re paying a price for it.
I married at eighteen to an older man with the understanding from the outset that children were not optional for me. If I didn’t want children then I didn’t have to get married to him.
My seventh baby is due in June. (-:
- Megan