Do you both get along to a reasonable extent?
In general, divorce is not a good choice, and if you are a Christian, I would double that “not a good choice” concern.
You seem to center your concern around not being more intimate. You do realize men can have more physical problems as we get older, leading to some to choose a physical withdrawal of sorts, without telling their partners why that might happen.
Interesting.
He did have a heart attack about a year ago and I think he’s
Frightened.
Thank you, FRiend. :)
Yes, we do have fun and laugh together.
I just miss the closeness.
It's generally humiliating for a man when his "equipment" isn't functioning properly, and not something we like to have to talk about. More concerning, "equipment malfunction" can be an early sign of heart disease
I would encourage him to go to his doc and have a thorough exam to check out the possibility of heart issues. If he passes, it may improve matters if you both adopted a regular exercise program.