((Gotta ask... was it their idea??))
Awful about your wife. I am so sorry. A good woman would NEVER ditch her soldier husband. Marriages don’t always work out but it’s a promise to Gd and should only dissolve after all efforts have been expended to try and save it.
My ex was well endowed until we had kids.After we were done having kids she wanted them back.
The other, I pulled her out of a very controlling abusive relationship. She floated the idea and I was making that kind of money every two weeks so I didn't care. It was more a self esteem thing for her. Someone else is riding that Jet Ski now though. But if she safe and happy, I fulfilled my role in her life.