Ah feel your pain too. Caring for mom here in CA, not going to stay here forever. And FB? I go on briefly for good reasons and get the hell off. My friends on there are so liberal, so fooled. It is painful and unwelcoming to say the least. And being a hated minority here gets old. If only I were gay, trans, or into s&M or bestiality, I could “be who I am” right out in public. Instead I am living in the shadows. The illegals sure as hell aren’t.
I understand entirely - especially about living in the shadows. If I lived as openly as the communists and homoerotics, I would have no livelihood.
I have FB because of my avocation; I hardly ever use it.
P.S.
I love the name Yaelle (Jael, Yael) [Judges 4 & 5]. I am using it in the science fiction novel I am writing.