Personally, I think people shouldn’t discuss others behind their back. But go ahead, the ‘Report Abuse’ button is a click away.
Behind your back would have been by PM not by posting.
I have no desire to see this conversation degenerate into attacks and backbiting. Sometimes if you are the one being attacked its difficult to stop and realize that the responses are meant to irritate not to converse and that you can disengage. You have not abused but you have not respected the others in this conversation either.