Any advice coming out of the rabid leftist county of
Santa Cruz does not deserve an audience.
Oh, brother.
Bad sibling relationships can be exacerbated, if not downright created, from selfish parents who like to do things for show, rather than for caring directly about them.
God cares, of course. A lot of bad consequences can be reaped through sibling bickering. If siblings give each other the devil, then they get the devil from one another too. It’s inexorable. This isn’t letting a field be fallow, this is sowing it with poison.
One factor not mentioned is sibling spouses.
It can be a most unpleasant experience, for example, if a sibling has married someone who is liberal, or otherwise out of step with other family members.
We all met our siblings in law as adults; there is no shared childhood connection with them.
Point being, in family gatherings, holidays, any family event, these siblings in law, with whom you never had any bonding, are there, and will affect the family dynamic and interaction.
You might have had the finest relationship with your sister, for example, but if she marries an opinionated know it all liberal, you aren’t going to enjoy the family visits.
My husband’s parents favored one of three, no apparent reason (Middle one). There is absolutely no bond between oldest/youngest and the favored one, quite the opposite.
I was wondering if the left was moving from letting trannies into girl’s rooms to pushing incestuous marriages - but I think their next ‘liberation’ target is going to be pedophiles - maybe sibling sex after that.
I guarantee you there are bad siblings. There are bad, evil people in the world. Sometimes they have brothers and or sisters who are saddled with them. I speak from brutal, painful experience.