;D
I always refer to them as “him,” regardless of what they’ve done to themselves.
No woman can meet the standard of “femininity” set by men. I have short hair. You, iirc, keep snakes and ride a motorcycle. So we’re not good enough. On the other hand, women who go shopping with their girlfriends aren’t good enough, either, because they’re “women.”
So, like, WTF? Can’t we all just be humans?