Actually this is another case of the pot calling the kettle black. I read and responded to most of your posts when you generalized about the behavior of 13-14 year olds. You are outside your area of competence when you make blanket statements about all 13-14 year olds and about the documentation available for homeschoolers.
I am able to generalize about the behavior of 13-14 year olds because I have dealt with over 2,000 of them. You think that your generalizations are more valid than mine because you have kids. I think not. Parents only see what their kids are like when they are around. Teachers see what they are like when you aren’t there.