Adulterers hurt other people. Betrayed partners (and those who were hurt in other ways) expose the betrayal. My sympathy here is pretty thin.
Not only were they cooling around, they were so stupid they left a trail in a venue where what has happened was likely to happen essentially. Libidos aren't very smart. Don't let them be in charge of your actions.
I think anyone who goes to social media sites-no matter what they are promoting-including farcebook-is either blissfully unaware that they are visible to predators or simply doesn’t think anything can happen-I had a female coworker once whose info was hacked from an evangelical Christian chat room/social media site-and some guy used the info to stalk her-common sense says bad people are everywhere-masquerading as someone safe...
I’m a Tejana with a terrible Latin temper-but I don’t condone adultery, but neither do I take any delight in hearing that someone who never stole, raped, defrauded or murdered someone had the same happen to them-no one deserves to be the victim of that kind of crime unless they have done the same to someone.
Technically speaking, swinging is just a euphemism for wife swapping or open marriage-both spouses knowing what the other is doing, and with whom-having been married to a career military man, I’ve known military couples who were into that-never understood the attraction, myself..