Fortunately my mother was holding me when I quit breathing, and she was able to revive me. I would not allow my own babies to die for anyone or anything.
I have a small bladder. I go to the bathroom several times every night.
I also have a 4 month old, who sleeps in a bassinet at the foot of our bed.
Every time I return from the bathroom, I bend down close to her and listen for her breathing.
I am uptight about it!