You’re dodging the question.
Being your brother’s keeper doesn’t make you superman.
Really? What am I dodging? The question is who is your brother? You won't even FACE the question. Deciding who your brother is, is the first tactic, not the last. Caring for people is always risky. If safety is your ultimate purpose, then dump your kids to a madman shooter, stay hidden, and run - after all, you can always make more. Otherwise, don't YOU dodge the question.