Sometime even the best care givers are subject to questions because of the irresponsible care givers. I took care of my mom for years before she passed and her last trip to the hospital had a social worker questioning me and how much I was involved in her care and it really pissed me off. My sister, who never lifted a finger to help me told her there’s not a better care giver in the world like me. She was right. I took care of her like a baby, had help come in twice a week for medical check ups and bathing. I don’t blame you for being upset though. I feel your anger.....believe me.
I know, it’s like they think the government is the only caregiver and not the family. I realize some families aren’t that great but that should not mean treating everyone like scum.