Many women feel awkward with men who are not as tall as they are. They don’t like having to avoid wearing heels. It’s more about them than about you. Women who are large in other ways as well are especially going to feel anything but feminine and dainty going out with a guy who is not just shorter than them but smaller overall.
So, look for women who are shorter and smaller than you are, and your height will be much less of an issue.
“Many women feel awkward with men who are not as tall as they are. “
I think you are probably right. There is no reason to turn this into a tirade against women who won’t date guys shorter than they are, as the original poster was trying to do.
Actually, I'd say it's all about them. But you can't argue with chemistry.