Posted on 06/18/2016 11:57:16 AM PDT by nickcarraway
I would avoid “friends” that would be that critical. And find some who were more positive. It takes two to make a good marriage and being positive is not always easy but always the better choice.
I just got rid of spouse pretty much just like the one you described. Theyll never find the body. Hehe. But seriously, I’m
broke, alone and considerably more happy than I have been for quite some time.
LOL what are you talking about? I've walked away from the plantation. I also don't have much of a libido to speak of. Powerless
MGTOW means men going their own way. Basically walking away from the plantation, ie. dating, marriage, and for the most part relationships in general.
Bump for later read.
MGTOW = men unwittingly becoming tools of the feminist agenda.
***In the main, I find todays crop of whining women to be the most self-involved and selfish bunch of twits.***
And what do you call this? I call it the same thing you just accused women of being.
Hey Lil Flower,
It’s Saturday night on Free Republic. It’s a tradition here for guys to drink wine or a beer and complain about how awful women are.
If they could get a date with a 23 year old with big breasts they’d be out of here in a minute. LOL
I think you got that backwards.
Feminists cannot exist without male wage slaves. The more men that refuse to work astronomical hours to support fedgov, ex wife/baby momma, and the welfare state...the sooner the house of cards falls on the blue haired hambeasts’ head.
oh dear. Did I hit a nerve? Too close to home perhaps?
Here is the crux of the problem that the writer and other women like her are experiencing:
Then again, I cant take it out on my husband either. Not to his face. Not if I want to stay married.
I've seen this as I've worked with couples for a long time, and I hate to say it, but often this comes from the woman's side a LOT more than the man's side:
"I simply can't tell them that!"
The fact is that your spouse should be the ONE person you can be completely open and vulnerable to. Your spouse is the ONE person that you can share your frustrations, your failures, your anger, your complaints, your whines, your insecurities, and your fears with.
If you can't, then you are missing the core aspect of trust in your relationship, and that missing core, more than anything else, is what causes marital disintegration.
When I see a couple who keep secrets, bad talk each other to others, or start comparing their spouse to other people in a negative way, I know there are serious problems festering deep down.
Now an occasional comment born from frustration will inevitably happen, but when it is rare and followed (or preceded) with a declaration of love for the other person and an apology for needing to voice it then you can mark that off as incidental and not systemic. The systemic running down of the spouse, as described in this article, is sadly where many people are sometimes before the literal honeymoon ends.
***One particular ex***
Wait, “one” particular ex?
How could you possibly misconstrue the acronym? And you’re even making fun of it? As Milo says, feminism is cancer.
I help out with the house work. It was just last night, I put my own coffee cup in the dish washer.
>>>Dissing your man to other women lessens the likelihood one of them will try to poach him<<<
As long as they don’t find out that the Woman’s pet name for her Husband is The Human Tripod. Could be problematic.
“I lived with someone special and she started naked spaghetti night as our little custom.”
Thank you for sharing about a very sweet time in your life.
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