[Lizavetta]

For years, the soon to be ex-wife said she didn't care about money.

There are two sides to this coin, my friend. When the marriage is good the man surely does love the little homemaker who cooks, cleans and keeps the children out of daycare. It's worth so much, at the time.

When the marriage is crumbling she's all of a sudden a money grubbing leech who never earned her way and is grasping for everything she can get. She who chose to be a homemaker for you and a full time mother for the children with NO career to fall back on.

[usconservative]

I would encourage you to read my posts on the original thread (linked above.) Your statements don't apply in this case.

She made the decision to be a stay at home mom and toss $50k of income/year away, putting the responsibility to work harder and support the family firmly on me, without consulting me before making the decision.

Then, I get blamed for the decision she made when she "threw her career away" to stay home with the kids.

You ladies cannot have it both ways and always blame us men.