I agree with you. If I were her commander, I’d chew her ass out for being a little jerk for trying to make her high school look bad, for trying to make herself the center of attention, and for besmirching the name of the Corps.
It doesn’t hurt her to wear her uniform under her cap and gown.
And it is NOT a surprise to anyone in the world that the graduation dress is ‘cap and gown’.
Me to. 24 years in the Navy and I hate graduation wars as much as Christmas wars. All so silly. Snowflakes are spreading like a locus to not just children but entitled parents and adults.