Posted on 03/07/2016 8:17:30 PM PST by Morgana
From a woman who had several abortions:
“I’m moving out to a one-bedroom condominium. I don’t have crumb–snatchers tearing up my house. I live where there’s adult living. I don’t have to live in the 69th Village, because I can’t afford anything else… My cousin, she just had [a baby]. She’s just a month younger than me. … But I mean, who gets up with this child? She does… I don’t know if I’m just materialistic or what… [but] she has to wait for the first and the 15th [to get a welfare check]. She stocks up on diapers. I don’t want to be like that. I don’t want to be like that.
It’s just a different type of lifestyle that I want to lead right now… I’m not ready for it now. Because I mean, there’s so many things that, so many opportunities and other choices you know, that are offered to me right now. I just don’t want to miss out on it. I just don’t want to miss anything.…
When you’re growing up you go through a lot of changes. It’s a part of growth. … You might have men problems, you just change. You might be young and you might be infatuated and you end up getting married, you have a child by him and you have another child … and you’re sick of him so you want to leave and then you go off with your boyfriend. I don’t want to bring my child through all that mess. Then, I know I wouldn’t be with the man forever, because I would grow out of him, and then, then I’ll have to drag my child through that…. These are the years when we go through our little flings, so don’t make any real commitments now.”
Sumi Hoshiko Our Choices: Women’s Personal Decisions about Abortion (New York: Harrington Park Press, 1993) 172 – 175
She was not using birth control consistently the three or four times she got pregnant and aborted.
Why don’t she just get spayed like the female dog she is?
5 stages of grief.
Stuck in bargaining it seems.
I was 24 when my daughter was born and it really made me realize why I am here. Then there are those who are just ultra selfish and have no clue the love your own child brings in to your life. So sad for people like this lady.
That’s what I say. She doesn’t deserve a womb.....what a horrible woman!!
No value on human life. None whatsoever. So sorry that a baby messed up your partying, shopping, having random sex with whomever you choose, etc ...just the way the progressive socialists who march lockstep to their Master’s orders not aware that they are being controlled and manipulated; unaware that they are in bondage to the State to produce revenue and enrich the elites.
Sheesh, what a shrew. Remind me never to marry this unit.
Too bad her mom didn’t feel the same way.
Hope she enjoys loneliness.
Is it just me or a lot of women are now using men the way men use women?
No idea, but it sure looks like it. Fortunately Mrs. Thinking and I have been removed from that scene for a couple decades, so I can’t say first hand.
If there is no God her behavior makes perfect sense.
This is one of the three reasons I know God exists.
She’s a witch!
Some people, both men and women, know themselves well, and realize they haven’t the desire or inclination to have children. It’s not for everybody. I wish that I had become a parent when I was younger, but it was not to be. Though it’s not nice to hear folks talk so negatively about children as this woman, good for them, that they are self aware and honest. The responsible ones in this group will take precautions not to start a life in the first place.
I wonder if she ever thought perhaps how things might have been if her mother had felt the same way.
A lot of women always have.
They are just more open about it now.
What does her husband say about this?
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Agree. I have a sister-in-law like that. Doesn't care much about children, never had any. She's in her senior years now, her husband of seven years or so committed suicide last summer, and she's alone and poor. And estranged from us and the other siblings.
My greatest joy is babysitting my grandchildren almost daily and having everyone gather at my home for parties. Even if the kids drop crumbs everywhere, I don't mind picking up after them at all. I love my family and am never lonely.
All she deserves is many lonely years in a bad nursing home...
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