Two different situations.
One situation is treating people who are, by law (and we are ostensibly a republic governed by laws, are we not?) American citizens in an overtly rude and impolite way. Sorry, that just isn’t the way I act towards others. If you do, that is your business and people who you interact with can draw their own conclusions about what kind of person you are.
The other situation is in a case of an overt act of war. You do understand that seizing an embassy IS an overt act of war, don’t you? This is the same country that has planned and executed unrestricted warfare against innocent civilians in the exact same way that both the Nazi and Japanese regimes did, and I fully support the actions of the allies in bringing that unrestricted warfare to them, as I would the countries who currently support terrorism who commit an overt act of war.
So, please don’t conflate the issues. I don’t take any joy in rude behavior, and I wouldn’t take any joy in unrestricted warfare. The two things don’t belong in the same discussion.
I don’t support your behavior, and deliberately went out of my way not to attack you for it. But because I choose to approach this SPECIFIC aspect differently than you do and said so, and specifically explained why, you have chosen to take it personally.