We lost my nephew on a river rafting trip. He went missing, but then a huge storm (numerous tornadoes) blew through within a few hours, and the river flooded. He has never been found. It will be three years in May.
Sorry to hear about your newphew NEMDF, my condolences. I guess your family never got closure due to not ever finding his body. I pray that some day he will be found and will be given a proper burial.