You can or should be able to set the power button on the front to different functions in control panel/power options also what other devices are allowed to wake the computer in device manager and the power options, work between them to get what you need.
You change your actual sleep mode in BIOS but read about that before you go there, mine is in S3 which is the lowest state except for hibernate, only system memory is retained. Mine is homebuilt so is clean, a lot of prebuilts have hooks and crap that allow same brand devices to do different things but the powercfg command line can tell you a lot of what's going on.
tHANKS FOR THAT LINK- I’ll bookmark immediately- I DID FIND OUT HOW TO VIEW ALL EVENTS- WOW- WHAT A BUNCH OF HOOPS TO JUMP THROUGH- BUT IT APPEARS THAT THE PROBLEM “may be” WITH NORTON’S (Woops Cps lock) and it’s :
“Wake Source: Timer - Task Scheduler will execute ‘\Remediation\AntimalwareMigrationTask’ task.”
Had to go through an umber of steps to get to task scheduler to turn off “Trigger” for the malwaremigrationtask-
Here’s the link to how to do it if you ever run into the problem- I don’t know if this will fix my issue or not, but I’ll know more tomorrow when computer is in sleep mode
https://community.norton.com/en/comment/6566911#comment-6566911
The post is just about 1/2 way down the page (The 34’th post on the page) by user “SLSALES” and there are a bunch of graphics that show what to do and where to go