Do you use that excuse on all your family, for all gift giving occasions? “Merry Christmas, Honey. No, I didn’t get you anything. I’m alive! That should be gift enough for you, Sucker!”
No, but as loving father and one who really doesn't need a present from my sons to show how much they love me: If I had gone through this for one of my sons I would certainly see Father's day in a different light and would simply revel in the chance to hug him and tell him I love him instead of looking for a tie or a car or some other gift. His life would be the greatest gift I could want.
I guess that's just me. Maybe you could tell us what would satisfy you in that situation?