How much cocaine has to be snorted to come to the conclusion that dad won’t marry mom?
Mom was playing the field.
Mom may want to party and a baby gets in the way.
One sex partner? She doesn’t want that.
If the baby is around being raised by dad she might feel guilty.
If the baby is adopted by people she will never see then that reminder goes away.
You are right, of course. I am WAY too close to my own situation. Mom could be WAY off the charts.