Good on the planned abduction!
Thanks! I think it will go off well-he is already used to a pet carrier, and no longer goes down the road to the cabin unless she is there, puts out food and shouts for him.
I asked her to give me the cat once-told her what a nice, safe home he would have-but she refused-said he keeps the shed and garage rodent free when she isn’t there-so I’m just going to take him with me when I leave-he deserves a nice life.