Agree.
It’s become cult like with the race thing. Where if a term or gesture is not liked, it could make national news resulting in a tsunami of hyper offended people playing abused victims feigning outrage demanding heads roll.
Pretty scary stuff for those with no bad intent.
What’s even scarier is that some of the comments on the restaurant’s FB page indicate that the waitress was black. If so, how is there even a scintilla of racism implied?