There's your problem. There's your inner ninny, believing that you can vote for a pro gay, pro obamacare, pro environmentalist, pro abortion, pro gun control R, and it will go "better than any D."
You only know how to vote against. It's the only way you think. And it's too bad, because voting "against" is like chasing a unicorn. You only get to vote FOR.
And you think like the stubborn, bullying COWARD that you are. "I'm just not gonna vote". Real smart.